Self-service of kindness.

'If your kindness does not include yourself, it is incomplete.'

The key to self-confidence is self-compassion.

Self-compassion is all about how we treat ourselves. Or how much love we are giving to ourselves.

We're usually pretty easy to find compassion and to forgive ppl when they've messed up. Yet we find it a lot of harder to do to that for ourselves. It's really easy to blame ourselves when things don't kinda go our way.

Then we wonder why, when we are kinda going thru our lives, and showing up for our dreams; we don't feel that confidence in ourselves. We don't feel that we can trust ourselves, that no matter what happens, we'll make it through.

I think this all would stems back to ourselves and our self-compassion.

There's no way you're gonna be able to go thru your life, feeling happy, when you're at war with yourself.